Sometimes, despite our best efforts, a marriage can still breakdown.
What can you do? How do you go about getting a divorce?
First of All, Ask whether There Is Any Future to the Marriage
Before giving up on the marriage, you should take some time and think about whether or not there is any future to the marriage.
After thinking for some time, you will usually come to one of 3 answers:
-Yes, actually, there is a future to the marriage. These are some of the things I can do to save the marriage: A, B and C.
-No. I am sure there is no future to the marriage. I have already done everything I can to save the marriage.I want to get out.
-I am not sure whether there is a future to the marriage.
If You are Sure There Is A Future OR If You are Not Sure
You should make every effort to try and save your marriage. This is
because moving towards divorce can be very damaging to the marriage. It can cause irreversible damage.
In trying to save your marriage, you may consider:
-turning over a new leaf, accepting your spouse for who he or she is and accommodating to his or her wishes.
-going for counseling, on your own first and then, later, if your spouse agrees, together.
What You should do If You are Sure There Is No Future to Your Marriage
You should reach out to a qualified lawyer to understand the law and identify the specific actions and steps you should take to prepare for the divorce.
Lam & Co. (Advocates & Solicitors) handle international and Singapore divorces.
We can help by addressing your questions and speaking about how to move forward.
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